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Dear Liat, Thank you so much for taking the time to answer me. I shalll certainly take your advice AND 'withdraw' from the fighting arena . The only thing that puzzles me is that you talk about setting boundaries AND this I definitely did while she was growing up. We immigrated here when she was 10 yrs. old AND sadly when she was 18 she suffered intense trauma when her boyfriend was killed in a terrorist attack. She went 'through the gates of hell' for years AND now TG. is happily married. Is it possible that this period during which we had to 'tread so gently' -although she had therapy for a long time has resulted in this behaviour. At times she is really full of life but her mood swings are really difficult to deal with. I hope that I can stay in touch with you should I need some help. I thank you once again.

קארן, הצטערתי לשמוע על הטראומה עמה נאלצה בתך להתמודד. בהחלט יתכן שאירוע כה מטלטל ממשיך לתת אותותיו גם שנים מאוחר יותר, לא תמיד תוך מודעות מלאה לכך. אני משערת שזו הייתה תקופה קשה לכולכם. טוב לשמוע שהיא בכל זאת הצליחה להשתקם ולהמשיך בחייה. אשמח, כמובן, להמשיך ולשמוע ממך בהמשך, ולסייע במידת הצורך. נסי לשמור על קור רוח ורגיעה בשביל שתיכן. שבוע טוב ליאת