vaginismus

I have a problem that has been bothering me for a while. Although I have had sexual relationship in the past, I have problems having it with my current boyfriend whom I love very much. It really hurts everytime he is trying to penetrate. I know this problem is called "vaginismus". What should I do? I t really bothers us!

have you read about this diagnosis - please read AND see if it is related to your symptoms otherwise - u have said nothing about lab tests? http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/001487.htm