i can't stop thinkin of him...

i've met a guy a year ago... i gave him the eye.... he gave it to me too, but the problem is that i never had the courage to address him, however its been a years since i met him for the last time AND i just cant stop thinkin bout him... i'm helpless i want him to be with me but yet all i know is his first name, his home town, AND his place of work (which is the Bank) AND i really dont know which branch... i want him with me, please Doctor tell me what to do?

Dear Torment, I would consider your thoughts about that impossible guy as obssessions. My practical advice would be to meet other guys AND try to develop an emotional relationship with one of them, but maybe that is exactly the issue toward which you may be ambivalent, hence you focus on the unachievable guy. I would recommend that you consult a gay friendly mental health professional. Good luck, Dr. Gidi Rubinstein http://www.zarut.com/shrink-friendly